Hello, I'm just a girl from India


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You’re welcome :)

I guess all of us have something from the past that we wish to change.

I have no idea what you’re troubles are.But I do think that if we have closure with the past.We can definitely get through anything that the future holds for us :)
 
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You’re welcome :)

I guess all of us have something from the past that we wish to change.

I have no idea what you’re troubles are.But I do think that if we have closure with the past.We can definitely get through anything that the future holds for us :)
The thing is this that I'm seriously in deep trouble and once again on the verge of getting humiliated if the truth gets out.I just haven't learnt or changed from my mistakes.And maybe because of my past mistakes and bad record I'm now fearful of my present and my future as well.I badly want to start over it feels sometimes
 
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a spell is just a line of words and if you say that line it would be like talking to yourself so it dosent help look into time travel the other ways look on your pc areas of strange phenomenons if theres any in india you may get lucky and find a vortex or something that can help you through it
 
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The thing is this that I'm seriously in deep trouble and once again on the verge of getting humiliated if the truth gets out.I just haven't learnt or changed from my mistakes.And maybe because of my past mistakes and bad record I'm now fearful of my present and my future as well.I badly want to start over it feels sometimes
Despite my better judgement, i'll bite.

I know what you're talking about, and it's normal really. Sh*t happens. I don't know about spells and such, but you must understand there are no quick fixes in life. Furthermore, one has to learn to deal with the consequences of his (or her, in your case)'s actions.

You don't wanna hear this (women and kids especially), but..

Actions have consequences.

I believe that I am indeed a testament to all who face what you face. I've faced adversity, and a bad record.. and past mistakes. My scores from HS would have you believe i'd be some burn out meth head who throws his life away. A look at my disciplinary record from school would have you believe that i'm a bad apple, that i'd end up in prison one day.

That was never the case, no one (except maybe God) knows the future. If my future (now my present) can be good, so too can yours.

Gotta be resilient, have to bounce back, keep rolling with the punches life throws at you. Face your problems head on, or the nightmare will never cease. The more you run from something, the more power you give it.

Starting over is possible, I've done it. It's not as easy as it sounds. Nor is it as romantic.

I'm an outlier, things turned up for me because of my (very unique I might add) personality. Most who start over end up in the freakin' gutter (literally, figuratively and metaphorically). Few people can do a complete reboot/restart and 'profit' (come out better than where they started)

It's actually harder on you to start over.. because you have to build yourself all the way back up to the point where you left off.. and then some.

Logically, just continuing on would put you in a better position in life. Not starting over. Requires less energy et cetera.

You believe running away from it all is your out, it's not. It just takes you deeper into the rabbit hole. Nothing is guaranteed in life. Escaping it all requires risk, and for many.. risk turns the tides and puts them in a better situation. For others, it ruins them.

It put me in a better situation, but only after constant struggle and fight. And I was lucky in life. Very lucky. My life shouldn't have turned out as well as it did. I'm the exception, not the rule. If 100 people like me did what I did and followed in my footsteps, copying my actions and ways... they wouldn't be nearly as well off (so to speak) as I am now.

They'd probably be dead or in jail, unemployed, on the verge of suicide and might actually go through with it.

Perhaps you're not as lucky as I am, perhaps your starting over will not end as well as it did for me.

Never make a leap if you aren't sure, if you want to take a run and jump across cliffs.. you better make DAMN sure you can make it. For if you are not 100% certain life will be good to you, then life will not be good to you. And you will not make it.

Don't know your situation, don't really care to tbh. But if you think about escaping, think twice. That is what I would've told myself prior to doing what I did once upon a time. Granted, I never looked back until now.

Life improved drastically for me when I left it all behind, but most end up in a long downward spiral which never ends for them.

Some might say the view is good from the top, but where IS the top? The grass is always greener on the other side.

You only get so many opportunities in life to start over, use them wisely.

There's my take, there's my unasked for advice. Take it or leave it, doesn't make a difference to me. Now i'm off to bed. Peace.
 
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oh suicide isene the way join the military they feed you look after you and make your life better , if they are strict and wont take you question them say why do people jion al qaeda, they may wake up and think then because if they are to strict with peoples medical conditions and health and knock them back on these grounds they would get fed up and frustrated and turn to someone else if ya desperate and want to jion and they dont except you then people may tend to give there allegiance to someone else who cares
 
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Mayhem nothing of the sorts.Im troubled with my career and finances an my relationships in general .
I'm no expert but there are always new job opportunities out there, a possible career change may be needed, which may include financial rewards.
As far as relationships, I was once told by a fortune teller at Gnostica Bookstore in Minneapolis that there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Don't be afraid to take chances in life and also welcome to Paranormalis.
 

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Tn was it on 13th street?

True what you said, though India is a lot different then the USA.

It may not be that easy.