My son heard me tell him to come downstairs, but I wasn't home!

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  1. cmac Member

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    My son heard me tell him to come downstairs, but I wasn't home!

    I was taking my son to school this morning so he could lift weights. As we approached the school, he said, “Oh, I almost forgot. Yesterday when you were gone, I was upstairs and I heard you say, Alex, come down here!” He said that it was my voice that he heard, he had no doubt. He said that he came downstairs, thinking that I must have gotten home or something. He said that it sounded like I was sitting in the recliner, that I normally am sitting in, and that was where the sound seem to him to have come from. He was surprised to see that I wasn’t there in the recliner, and he went walking around the house to find me, and then he found that my truck wasn’t home, and I was no where to be found. I asked him if he was certain that it was my voice and he said that it definately was my voice, it wasn’t someone elses.

    This is a strange event no doubt. This is just a few weeks after the disembodied voice that my daughter and I heard, but this saga goes much deeper than these two events. This has happened to all of us in my family, where we hear the voice of one another, but that person isn’t home. This is the first time it has happened at this current house that we've lived in the past 2 years. It happened to all of us at our last home.

    Numerous times I would be in the basement of our old house, on the computer and I would hear my wife holler downstairs for me. I would go upstairs, and no one was home! It even went as far a couple of times where I heard the entry door open on the main floor above me, and I would hear feet shuffling across the entry way, and the door closing, as if my whole family was home. Then I wouldn’t hear anything more, no footsteps across the floors of the house like they had come on in. Which I would immediately question, like “What the heck? Why aren’t they walking across the floor?” It was as if they had come in the front door, and then just stood there not moving. Then I would go upstairs, and no one was home. I remember one time I was so convinced that my wife had come in the front door, to carry in groceries, which she would do sometimes instead of bringing them through the garage door. I was so convinced she had been home, that when I saw her, I asked if she had been home about 15 minutes ago and then left again. That to me was what had to have happened. She said, “No, why?” And I told her that I swore that I heard her come in the front door, and then nothing more. You get used to someone’s distinct sound of how they come in a door, and their footsteps and such. It sounded just like it was her coming in, but no one was there.

    So one day I came home, and my wife told me that she was on the computer downstairs and she heard me open up the door at the top of the steps and call her name out. After a few minutes she came upstairs, and no one was home. This spooked her a bit, and she asked me about it when I got home. I said, “Nope, I just got home. That’s weird!” Our son says that the same type of things happened to him, his bedroom was downstairs, and he said that numerous times he was downstairs and would hear either my wife or I call for him, then he would come upstairs, and no one was home. I’m pretty certain of this as well, that he says he would hear us come in the front door , he would hear footsteps, and the door open and close, and then it got quiet, so he would check it out, and we weren’t there.

    After the first few times of these things happening, it definitely made me wonder what was going on, but I didn’t think much about them, I was just confused. Generally there would be large gaps of time between the occurrences, so you don’t think much about them because of that I guess, you just sort of forget about it. But when this happens so many times, and now it has happened at our new house, it really gets my mind stirring about what is going on here. We aren’t hearing someone else coming into the house, or calling for us, we are hearing the actual sounds and voices of people in our family. I’ve heard my wife, she has heard me, our son heard my voice, so what is going on here? I was contemplating this just a few minutes ago. It seems in every case that one of us has been alone in the house, and the party that they heard, they were expecting them home at any moment. Then it seems like about 10 minutes sometimes more after hearing them and no one was there, that the person or people do actually return home.

    It is like an anticipation of them coming home or something. Maybe a subconscious worry or something about them returning, or someone is feeling lonely or scared at home by themselves. I just don't know. I haven't come across this type of thing before. I wondered about it being some kind of residual energy at first. Maybe something that builds up in the matter of the house or the walls or something. But it doesn’t seem to be a residual effect. Maybe a residual energy together with the anticipation in our minds that someone will be returning soon. It seems to be the person we anticipate returning home, it is that person’s voice that we hear or the their particular footsteps that we hear coming in the door.

    I believed that my wife and kids were going to be home soon, and then what I hear is them all returning home, coming in the door, and the distinct sound they normally make coming in the door. When I’ve known my wife will be returning home before long, I’ve heard her call downstairs for me. She knew I was coming home, and she heard me call downstairs to her. My son yesterday believed that I would likely be home before long, and he heard me call for him. Very strange indeed. I don’t know that I’ve heard or seen other reports of this type of thing, but I have to believe if it is happening to us, that it happens to other people as well.

    I have to wonder if it is some type of strong premonition that somehow we are manifesting on our own. My whole family is very intuitive, maybe that is why this is occurring. I’m searching, trying to look for all possibilities to narrow this down. After this last event, I know without a doubt it is occurring. All doubt and trying to just write it off as before, is gone. So what is happening here? I won’t stress about it, but it really makes me wonder.
  2. Sarah New Member

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    I've been having this same problem. Only my family only hears ME when I'm not there. I'm shaken about what's happening.
    Earlier this year in February, my mother texted me while I was at school.
    "Are you home? Did you just leave home?"
    I answered, "No... I left an hour ago. I have class."
    "That's so odd. Your brother and I were watching a movie in the livingroom when we heard YOU in your room screaming 'F*CK' at the top of your lungs."

    This was the only incident that happened for a while. I had moved out of the house a few months ago. I came back last night to visit. I was about to go into my room when my brother stopped me, saying "Sarah. Don't go into your room, dude."
    "Um... why?"
    "There's something in there. Like not your ferrets... Something... Something like an entity."
    I asked him more about it. He told me that for the past couple nights my door had been slamming (they lock it to keep the dogs out). His room is right next to mine, so he practically gets front row seats for this stuff. He told me that most recently, he awoke to a HUGE, loud GROWL and right after my door slammed once again. The dogs were in his room and they immediately started freaking out -- barking, growling, whining.
    So I got pretty damn freaked out. But my brother likes to tell stories. The growl that woke him could have been the dogs reacting to some distant siren. But what about my door slamming? My door doesn't SLAM. I've tried before, but it's stopped by this "air cushion" as I call it because my door is so light.
    I go to my mother's bedroom to ask her about it. She doesn't freak me out about stuff unless it's true. I ask her about my door slamming and the dogs barking. I expected her to react by saying my brother was just freaking out over nothing.
    But she didn't. She told me, "Yes.. Your door has been slamming. And, I don't know if it was just me half asleep, but I heard you scream at the top of your lungs in your room."
    I told her about my door not even being able to be slammed because it's so light. She agreed with me on this; she said she's aware that my door can't slam and make such a loud noise. But that didn't stop it from slamming before.

    I don't know what to make of this. The only conclusion I drew was that it was the door. I know it's a stretch, but when my brother was young he screwed with a lot of stuff like Quija boards. My door used to be his as well; he drew some alchemy circles on it because he liked the show "Fullmetal Alchemist" on adult swim. So I don't know.

    But I believe your story. It's happening to me as well. Does anybody have any answers to what's happening in my mother's house?
  3. cmac Member

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    Here is a link to a blog with a very similiar story to the 2 shared above. Until I found this story shared on this blog, I'd never heard of anyone else experiencing this type of phenomena before. I guess it is weirdly comforting that others have experienced this as well, other than my own family. Here is the link if anyone wants to check out this other story: http://from-the-shadows.blogspot.com/2010/06/voices-not-his-own.html
  4. x-Treme New Member

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    I have a daughter that has similar experiences. She has been having it since the death of her grandmother...nearly three years ago.
    We live in a two story house with the bedrooms and bathroom on the top level. There are times when she is too frightened to go to the washroom by herself. Other times, she has no fear at all.
    At first, we suspected that it was just her imagination. Soon to be a teenager, we blamed it on hormones, puberty, and all the changes the body experiences because of it.
    But as of late, we have been hearing the scattered unexplained noise from time to time ourselves. All noises being heard seems to come from upstairs. We have went searching for such noises (sometimes being whisper type voices) but have turned up nothing.
  5. Swift New Member

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    Wow, this is the first time I've read about something like this. This is really weird, I'd be a bit shaken up about it as well.
  6. Lord Roco Junior Member

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    This, as I belive, is very common phenomenon, curretly we have know fully credited statements to proove this, because its a very common phenomenon and most of you might have heard this

    One logical reason behind this is the techtorial membrane of the cohlea of our ears float to bring neuron interactions and send signals to brain for identifying sound, with time, some may temporarily loos the functional capabilities and may send wrong braisn to signals, which the brain inerprets in its own way, the most common being your name
  7. Swift New Member

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    Wow, very interesting Lord Roco.
  8. Lord Roco Junior Member

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    Thanks Swift, they are just facts I managed to procure while in 5 years of my speckitism to the paranormal
  9. v0rx New Member

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    When I was younger, I can remember sometimes hearing my mother call my name, or really just say anything when she was home, or was all the way down stairs.

    I've also heard my father say my name or something when he was asleep or wasn't home.
  10. Lord Roco Junior Member

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    See that, its a quite common phenomenon these days, which science having a 100% legit explanation, so its nothing to worry of
  11. cmac Member

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    Well, I didn't just hear my name. I heard footsteps and the floor moving above me, vibrating I guess, from people walking in the front door. And then no one was home.

    This was beyond just auditory for me. Cool that you shared that phenomena though. I appreciate your input, but to me doesn't explain the experiences that we had, mostly at our old house.

    Cmac
  12. jadonx New Member

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    Searched and came across this post after an experience tonight!
    Me my wife and eldest son were at home and my youngest son Jack was out with his friends.
    My wife and I decided to go to a local shop in the car. We got back home and my wife shouted upstairs "are you in Jack". We both heard my sons voice shout "I'm up here". Nothing unusual for a sixteen year old who goes straight to his computer .
    About 10 minutes later the doorbell rang. I looked out of the window expecting to see one of my sons friends.
    To my surprise or horror......... it was Jack.
    Me and my wife have both said if it was one of us who heard his voice, either one of us would have dismissed it as imagination, but we both heard his voice clear as day.
    What an earth was this. I am now starting to think now as a few days ago the tap was running in the sink when I got out of the shower and as a thorough person I couldn't believe I had left it running! :eek:
  13. tomaso88 New Member

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    wow thats creepy as either some ghost is haunting you or your have a share illusing this happens by 1 person hearing it then they say they heard it and then everyone elses mind makes them think they heard it to not saying thats happening to you its just a possibility but that is pretty creepy
  14. cmac Member

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    This might interest some people on this forum. I spoke face to face with Rosemary Ellen Guiley (who has written over 40 books on the paranormal) about this subject, of hearing voices of family members who weren't home at the time. She claimed that this is a fairly common experience with hauntings, which was news to me actually. I've only heard a few cases of this happening. In fact most of the other cases I've seen reported actually came from this topic on this forum after I posted this experience. Since posting this experience, I've seen a few other reports like it, in other places. But according to Rosemary, she has had numerous reports from people over the years of this phenomena occuring, along side other reports of paranormal in the same location.
  15. CarpeNemo Junior Member

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    I'm pretty sure activities like these are actual hauntings. But instead of doing the usual moving of objects or making strange noises they interact by imitating the voices of living people, especially if that person isn't home.

    It shouldn't be harmful, either. Generally an "imitator" (for lack of me thinking of a better term) isn't up to no good, but just trying to interact. Unless things start to get hairy, I wouldn't worry about it too much.
  16. cmac Member

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    Thanks for the comments CarpeNemo. I would have to agree that we haven't noticed anything harmful, or that scary really. Once you get use to these things happening now and then, it isn't such a big deal. It does surprise you, when it happens, and makes you wonder what is truly going on.

    It's funny, a lot of people that I tell about our experiences in our current home, and our previous house, just a few miles away, they are like, "I couldn't live there! I don't know how you do it?" It's not like things happen daily, and it isn't like it is something really scary, or something trying to drive us out of our home. It just seems that a few times a year, we notice things happening that are hard to explain rationally, I love hearing that term, "rational". Anyway, we've had disembodied voices, phantom smells appear and then disappear, the voice mimicking, and a few times where we heard a door open and someone walk the wooden floored entry way. More than a handful of experiences in our new home, and our previous house we had even more experiences, and my daughters reported seeing their great, great grandmother in their rooms at night, numerous times. And of course my wife and I while sitting on the couch saw 6 or 7 pieces of paper that were folded in half, stand straight up, right in front of us on the coffee table and then lay back down as if someone stood it up, and then layed it back down.

    Definately interesting when these things occur, very surprising as they happen, but nothing really scary or making you want to move out or anything like that. The only thing that was remotely scary was one night I woke up in the middle of the night, and I sat in the dark in my recliner (not sure why, lol), about 20 seconds or so later, I heard what sounded like someone (a large someone), jumping up and down on the floor and the sound came from an area where there is a wall between an upstairs bedroom (for my 5 year old at the time) and the attic space. I ran upstairs thinking my daughter was up to something, it was so loud I thought for sure the whole family would wake up from the noise. I got upstairs, opened the door to my daughters room, and she was sound asleep, no signs whatsoever of her having been up, and the sound was far too loud for her to have created anyway. But your mind trys to rationalize things right away. I still can't believe as loud as this was, that she didn't wake up, but she is a very sound sleeper. This sounded like someone my size, and I'm not small, jumping up and down for like 2 to 3 seconds on the floor above. Never heard this sound before, or since, and there is nothing in that area of the house, that could create a noise and vibration like I heard and felt. Strange indeed.

    Certain areas of the house, have been the source of the majority of the paranormal experiences, near the front door, the stairs just in front of the front door, and my daughters room upstairs. Strangely enough, a buddy of mine made some dowsing rods. I actually laughed when he gave them to me, thinking, "Surely these things won't do anything". But to my surprise, they sure did, and in certain areas in the house, they move like crazy. And many of these areas actually coincide with the areas of the paranormal experiences. I recently purchased a frequency counter, which measures the electromagnetic frequencies, I basically measured the entire house, moving it all around, from floor to ceiling, all around the rooms, and documented the readings and their locations on my digital audio recorder. The baseline measurements, were quite a bit lower than the areas that spiked. These areas that spiked in electromagnetic frequency, are also the exact areas that the dowsing rods move like crazy. I've had numerous people, skeptics, staunch debunkers, and what you would term I guess, "believers", all try the dowsing rods around the house, all have felt the rods move, without them moving them. One of the biggest skeptics of the dowsing rods refused to try them out. Seems he didn't want to take a chance feeling something going on, that he didn't believe possible. Well anyway, he was visibly scared to try them out. I tested the frequency counter around circuits, switches, and the like, there was no correlation between any electrical stuff, and the spots in the house where the frequencies are the strongest. Most of the areas, are out in the middle of the rooms, closets, and openings of the house, with nothing around those areas, to explain these spikes in energy. And when you move closer to electrical outlets, the numbers drop actually. What it all means, I don't know, but is interesting.

    I want to get to the truth of the matter. In the past couple of years, I've heard of a lot of alledged paranormal and ghostly activity in our town and the surrounding area.
  17. CarpeNemo Junior Member

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    You've basically done the best you can - using an EMF detector to find the anomalous spots was a good idea.

    I'll pass on a theory I've been working on, as well. It's going to be a long post, so I pray you don't think I'm trying to hijack your thread.

    I live about 16 miles from the closest town, out in the stix. My house is situated in the basin/valley/depression, and is surrounded by hills on all sides, of different slope grades. We can't get cell phone reception here at all, and satellite internet doesn't work (amazingly, satellite TV does, but our image quality is visibly low and often get cut outs).

    The property I live on is about 20 acres, and is pretty well flat excepting for the hill that my house sits upon. Ground is often soggy and wet, and when it isn't is mighty hard to dig through.

    I mention all these things for a reason, I assure you. I'm hoping your location might share physical similarities with mine.

    We've always had strange paranormal activities going on here. When my grandparents first moved here and lived in a trailer, strange things would always happen such as keys moving from their assigned places (my grandfather was adamant about having a key rack) or chairs moving about, sometimes even visibly.

    They moved out of the trailer once the house I'm currently sitting in was built, about 19 years ago. My parents moved into the aforementioned trailer (which, a few months later, I was born) and reported the same strange occurrences.

    Since this house was built, the original trailer was hauled away and replaced with another (which I've got interesting personal stories about that I might share) where I lived until I was 10, upon which it burned down (a strange story in itself, as well). My parents then built a house not far from my grandparents.

    All this time strange things have happened. I can't speak for all of my family, but with just my own experiences I've seen shadow people, ghost lights, heard conversations in an aside-from-me empty house, and that's just the worth telling about experiences.

    Recently, I bought a needle-type EMF detector and took readings from around my property. The woods, especially where it's most marshy, have the highest constant readings (generally in the 10-16 range) while the area around the house is usually lower (a lot of times 0 but I've gotten readings from 1 to one spectacular reading where the reader maxed out).

    The reason I made such a point to describe all of that is that I think this property is a naturally occurring high EMF spot. And unlike the show Ghost Hunters which assumes that all EMF readings come from ghosts, I think ghosts might be attracted to it as a source of energy for manifestation. And my theory is that ghosts are attracted not only to meaningful spots but that wandering ghosts might look for high-EMF areas to inhabit.

    I've had so many ghost activities that seemed to me that sometimes a new ghost would come, one would leave, and the "resident ghost" would change a lot. Events that seemed like the ghost had a different personality from the one before or after it. I've had hostile ghosts who liked to toss around light items (like empty butter bowls) and papers, and I've had ghosts that seemed positive.

    What I'd like to ask you to do is to check around your area with your meter. I wonder if you might be living near a high-EMF area (such as near cell phone or radio towers, or electrical equipment) that might have a hand in causing some of your activities.
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  18. cmac Member

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    CarpeNemo, Thanks for sharing that,. good stuff. I like to hear peoples experiences, and it is refreshing for others to just lay out their experiences, and allow us to take a look and try to figure out what is going on. Sounds like you had a tremendous amount of activity. Far beyond what we've had in my homes.

    I have a KII meter, emf detector, but I don't get much from it, seems this frequency counter is much more sensitive to energies around. I didn't purchase it for ghost hunting, I purchased it for measuring actual frequencies. It likely has multiple uses, and I have will have to play around with it.

    I live on a hill, lots of rolling hills and valleys around here. I just happen to be on a hill, around 1000 ft. elevation. The only somewhat strange things that I've noticed on our 5 acre property, are that on the west and north sides of the house, swarms of knats are commonly around in the late Spring, summer and early fall months. And we have the largest ant hill that I've ever seen in my life about 350 to 400 feet behind the house. I kid you not, it is about 5 1/2 feet in diameter, and about a foot and a half tall. It has been there for at least 3 years now, that I know of. Quite a few snakes, not much rock, and the birds love it here, even though there aren't any trees actually on our property, well, no mature trees, we have small ones planted in the front yard. Lots of worms here, and why the birds love it.

    I actually looked at a local cell phone tower map lately, and there aren't any within like 5 miles of our house. No radio towers really close either. I will try to get some measurements outside at some point. May be a while, busy this time of year. I want to measure the areas where the knats swarm and the ant hill of course. I will try to report what I find.

    A guy in town, a customer of mine, actually just today was telling me, that he and numerous people at his home, have seen a woman in a dress. He mentioned something about this to me a few years ago also, but was more in depth this time about it. He says that his cats at times will stare at an empty chair, and their backs hunch up, and all their hair stands up, they are not happy about something they sense or see. He has also caught them staring into the corner. He says that the entire house seems to fill with static electricity before, during and after sightings of this woman. They were having a wedding at the house, which was built in like the 1850's I believe, and a woman at the wedding, came running out of the house as fast as she could. She apparently had seen the woman, and asked him how long he has known about the woman. He said, "What woman?" She said, "You know who I'm talking about" There are supposedly numerous houses in town that are said to be haunted. Around town as well. I don't know how it compares to other places around, but it seems there is a high amount of activity here for some reason.

    When I walked into the bathroom the other night after my daughter heard that voice, it felt different in that room, compared to the rest of the house. It could have had something to do with my anticipation, and what she had reported to me, or it could have been some actual energy in that room. I didn't think to grab any devices to see what they were showing. It was just a feel.
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  19. CarpeNemo Junior Member

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    It might just be me clinging on with desperate hope, but I'm pretty sure that show Ghost Hunters isn't faked, but merely the team is a bunch of boobs. They catch the right amount of evidence (that is to say, not a lot of conclusive evidence, but enough) and they've basically put the K2/KII meter on the ghost hunting map.

    If you're willing to try it, maybe try to talk to the spirit with the K2. Ask the ghost to make the lights light up in response to questions. It really seems to work for the idiots on Ghost Hunters, so I would think an intelligent person behind the reader might get better results.
  20. Superman Junior Member

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    I think that ghost is attracted to you son or wants to play with your son. I believe that ghost is called a Doppelganger. A ghost that copies everything about you. And some say, when you see your Doppelganger it will kill you and replace you here on earth.

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