In my opinion, You have to balance your energies. Control will only strengthen the blockages. Control (in the sense of superiority) is a negative trait.
Practicing Loving-kindness is usually a good solution that calms you down. This is proven through studies:
Research shows LKM improves our social connections by changing the brain (literally). More specifically, the insula and the temporal parietal junction parts responsible for our ability to empathize are impacted.
Research shows LKM can improve vagal tone–a physiological measurement of resilience and well-being.
Research shows LKM increases gray matter in the brain region responsible for emotional regulation.
Loving-kindness is a meditation focused on nurturing compassion, kindness, goodwill, and love for oneself and others. While the loving-kindness meditation or LKM originates in Buddhist traditions, it’…
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Love is the more magnetic part and kindness (which is also connected to humility) the more electric part. You need both energies.
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