Dear Married People of Paranormalis (or members who have kids): GET IN HERE

[Mayhem]

There's always a choice to be made some are pushed into to it, others feel compelled.

Some look around and say i dont want to be him or her unhappy with the outcomes.

When the choice is made consequences ensue.

 

[SomethingCursed]

Harte to be honest you're one of the most hateful spiteful people on this entire site.

That being said, the statistics show that if you marry the first person you make love with, your chances of divorce are 10%. If you slept with 2 people before marriage goes to 20%, if more than before marriage 50% chance.

Studies also show that women who have sex with more than 5 partners in their entire lives, cannot ever emotionally connect to a 6th. It's probably the intuitive reason for slut shaming.

Regardless american women are so sexually active overall past a certain age(very young) that 98% aren't marriage material. Just avoid at all costs. Can still have an enjoyable relationship and marriage with them for idk, let's say 10years. Then it's over. Enjoy dating in your 40's and 50's.

American women reserve the right to change ethically at any point at any time. So even if you find a unicorn or even just someone that is marriage material, the american culture doesn't shame unethical behavior by women no matter what they do.

Always remember. Takes real strength of character to see the truth in societies that are collapsing. People in america only pretend to be happy, that's the last value they have, never showing their true feelings. So don't take advice from them. They will destroy ya.

Get married, have kids, live wonderfully, get divorced, lose everything, get reputation destroyed, and see ur kids once or twice a month on the weekends while dating other divorced 40 and 50 something women with stepkids. Funz.

So never ever lose your high income cuz your personal life charade will expose itself. Fake and strong relationships don't survive prolonged lowering of lifestyle.

Most here will think this guy is just spouting random nonsense, but he is actually right in a lot of ways. You, dear sir, are spitting lots of hard truths!

Also, as you're seeing the kids once or twice a month on the weekends, your newly divorced best friend here (ex wife) is going to use that as proof as to how you're never there for the kids, how you're a terrible father and so on. 'Tis how many women work.

The trick is to keep your peace and remain unaffected as she attempts to destroy your soul.. then when she face-plants the wall at 30 or 50 whichever comes first, she'll stay up late on the weekends with cheap white wine.. whining about how she's sorry and so on. You'll be the first one she calls..

Appreciate everyone's input, especially yours.

A wise man once told me that you have to make your own choices in life, but that you have to take in input from all/many sides first. Everyone's opinion in the matter, even stranger's, matters. You can never have too much feedback

 

[NaturalPhilosopher]

thanks man, nice compliment

women excel at subjective thinking, means if they're not balanced by objective thinking by men they become a trojan horse by evil elite men to program society to destroy itself vis-a-vis women.

Feminists are right, men are the cause of this, elite billionaire men(and ordinary men that believe them). Only way to fix it is not to inform women but rather ordinary men who's only choice of strategy is to abandon a few generations of american women for foreign caucasian non-programmed women.

Happiness is my goal. Fitting in isn't. Thankgod.

 

[Einstein]

My advice: Don't get married. Get fixed instead.

 

[NaturalPhilosopher]

women in the most egalitarian nations ever devised(netherlands, norway, finland) and high income, high education, equal rights, equal incomes are the MOST miserable of any nation.

makes ya go hmm.

 

[NaturalPhilosopher]

My advice: Don't get married. Get fixed instead.