I honestly believe that I have been told a likely version of what my future will be. I typically consider myself a fairly scientific person who would not readily believe in that kind of thing, but being scientifically minded means that I don't dismiss evidence that implies something other than what I expected. In this case, the evidence so far says my future will be what I was told it would be. I was told I would get back together and then break up with an ex-boyfriend (this has happened); marry late in life, but to a good man; I would adopt a child; I would have a successful career; and I would make a major and unexpected change in my life. Whether or not this will all happen, the point is that I believe it will. And with that belief I have both gained and lost. The day the information was given to me, I was devastated because of the knowledge that I would not have a biological child. Also the news that I would not find love until late in life was hard to take. Now I wonder if my belief in this outcome, will lead me to make decisions that will guarantee it (or jeopardize it). For example, with every career decision I make, I wonder if it's the decision I was 'supposed' to make. I also wonder if I'm in danger of using this 'guaranteed success' as a way out of trying as hard. However, there are also positives to this knowledge. For example, it's very reassuring to believe that I will find love some day. It makes me worry less about the fact that I don't have it now.