Hi Dave:
If she is a hybrid of humans and gray. Well, she is a late stage hybrid that appears to be almost human to me.
Alien Mind - 02
Early Stage Hybrid - Still look quite alien and would upset general population, but has alien mind control powers.
Middle Stage Hybrid - Might seem a bit off, but can pass.
Late Stage Hybrid - Almost human in appearance. However, mind control is weak to zero.
The Threat: The Secret Agenda
by Dr. David Jacobs
A Review by Amy L. Hebert
In Dr. Jacobs' new book, "The Threat: The Secret Agenda: What The Aliens
Really Want...And How They Plan To Get It", he indicates that the alien
agenda is essentially to breed hybrids by mixing human and alien genetic
material and integrate the hybrids into human society until only hybrids,
under complete domination and control of the aliens themselves, are left. He
indicates that the hybridization appears to progress in stages:
STAGE ONE (Hybrid 1) - Starts with in vitro joining of human sperm, eggs,
and alien genetic material. "The result of this union, which is grown
partially in a human female host and partially in a gestation device, is a
hybrid being who is a cross between alien and human.
STAGE TWO (Hybrid 2) - Is the stage in the hybridization process when aliens
join a human egg and sperm and assimilate material from the first-stage
hybrid (Hybrid 1) into the zygote. This process also begins in vitro and
requires both a human female host and a gestation device to mature the fetus
to "birth". The resulting offspring is a cross between Hybrid 1 and human.
Dr. Jacobs indicates that even at this stage, the hybrids still look quite
alien and there is no evidence that Hybrid 2's can reproduce.
STAGE THREE (Hybrid 3) - Involves taking a human egg and sperm and adding
genetic material from Hybrid 2, begins in vitro in a human female host then
to a gestation device. The resulting hybrid looks very human. They could
"pass" as a human although they would seem somewhat "off" in their
appearance.
STAGE FOUR (Hybrid 4) and STAGE FIVE (Hybrid 5) - Dr. Jacobs indicates that
the hybridization program reaches a critical point in these later-stage
generations. The aliens again splice a human egg and sperm with genetic
material from Hybrid 3 and the resulting hybrid is so close to human they
could easily pass without notice. It is these later-stage hybrids that
humans often call the "Nordics" although they do include a variety of hair
color and eye color.
Each stage of hybridization produces beings with many characteristics of
human beings but retain many invisible alien characteristics including the
ability to use mindscans on humans and maintain complete control of human
abductees. These beings are not human and they are not totally alien... They
are hybrids who THINK like aliens because they were raised by them. These
hybrids may display human emotions but their loyalties belong to their
"creators" - the aliens. The hybrid agenda is the same as the alien agenda.
"They become them."
Dr. Jacobs indicates in his book that what abductees often remember as the
aliens showing us the "error of our ways" and an interest in the earth's
environment, the aliens never show any concern for what may happen to HUMANS
if they destroy this planet, only what will happen to Earth. Dr. Jacobs
speculates, "Is it not possible that the aliens are concerned about the
environment because they want a clean Earth for themselves? The fact that
humans live on a sullied planet does not seem as important to them, but that
THEY might have to live on a despoiled planet may be intolerable."
Dr. Jacobs indicates the evidence suggests the aliens' ultimate goal is
integration into human society and all their efforts and activities appear
geared toward complete control of humans on Earth. Dr. Jacobs outlines four
programs the aliens have put into effect to achieve their goals:
1. The Abduction Program
2. The Breeding Program
3. The Hybridization Program
4. The Integration Program
TAKEN FROM
aliensandchildren.org::Interview with Professor Jacobs
Well, it's like "Invasion of the Body Snatchers," where you end up mouthing the words, "It's better this way. We have no pain now." 
