Kairos
Senior Member
That is covered just fine by "compatibility". The part of your soul that can be compatible with another person is just your personality, beliefs, and values. There is nothing else there that makes a distinction. A soul is just the energy in the body that gives it life.
There are compatible mates and incompatible mates. Nada else.
Seriously, write down what you want in a "soul mate" in a text document. Remove the emotional bullshit and anything that has to do with sex. What remains, I promise you, is just another dude. The stuff you left out -- emotion, sex, etc. -- is what matters when looking for a wife. You won't get loyalty or anything else like that. At least, I wouldn't count on it. What you had left in that text document is what you need to look for in forming a fraternity of men that are compatible with you. Keep these things separate.
There are compatible mates and incompatible mates. Nada else.
Seriously, write down what you want in a "soul mate" in a text document. Remove the emotional bullshit and anything that has to do with sex. What remains, I promise you, is just another dude. The stuff you left out -- emotion, sex, etc. -- is what matters when looking for a wife. You won't get loyalty or anything else like that. At least, I wouldn't count on it. What you had left in that text document is what you need to look for in forming a fraternity of men that are compatible with you. Keep these things separate.