@Classicalfan626 - It doens't sound like
@BlastTyrant is saying that he has personal experience with them, but that he has either spoken to or heard from people that have personal experience with ETs. It would make sense that they would be selective or they would be overwhelmed with requests for mundane favors.
I suggest as others have above, getting a copy of Dr. Steven Greer's CDs on meditation. Or perhaps looking for YouTube videos or podcasts specifically on meditation. I am not expert on meditation but I would expect that a certain level of skill would be needed before attempting a specific task through meditation. You may be trying to run before you can walk.